Say “Thank You” Instead of “Sorry”
- Cheri Tracy
- Jan 27
- 2 min read
A Simple Shift That Boosted Customer Satisfaction by 11%
In the bustling world of handmade businesses, how we communicate with our customers can make all the difference. A recent study suggests that expressing gratitude—saying "Thank you for your patience" instead of "Sorry for the wait"—can significantly boost customer satisfaction and loyalty.
The Power of Appreciation
When we apologize, we often draw attention to our mistake, which can reinforce negative feelings. Conversely, thanking customers shifts the focus to their positive qualities, like patience and understanding, making them feel valued. This subtle change in language not only acknowledges the inconvenience but also highlights the customer's role in maintaining a positive interaction.
Real-World Application
In my own experience running a handmade shops, I noticed a significant change when I switched from apologies to expressions of gratitude. For instance, during a particularly busy holiday season, orders were delayed.Instead of saying, "I'm sorry for the delay," I communicated, "Thank you for your patience during this busy time." Customers responded more positively, and many even appreciated the acknowledgment of their understanding.
Furthermore, I was incredibly nervous about outsourcing customer service. However, after implementing this change, I decided to start tracking customer satisfaction specifically related to our communication. Previously, when I was handling all customer service personally, our satisfaction rating hovered around 82%—okay, but not great. :( After adding a team member (shoutout to Aimee!), we saw an improvement to 89%. But the real game-changer was shifting from apologizing to thanking customers for their patience. With this slight adjustment, our satisfaction consistently hovers around 93%. I was genuinely blown away by these results!

Implementing the Change
Here are some actionable steps to incorporate this approach into your customer interactions:
Anticipate Delays: If you foresee a delay, inform your customers in advance and thank them for their anticipated patience.
During the Wait: Keep customers updated and express gratitude for their ongoing understanding.
After Resolution: Once the issue is resolved, thank them again for their patience and offer a small token of appreciation if possible.
When to Apologize
It's important to note that in cases of severe service failures, a simple thank you may not suffice. In such situations, combining an apology with compensation, like a discount or a freebie, can be more effective.
By shifting from apologies to expressions of gratitude, handmade sellers can foster stronger customer relationships and enhance satisfaction. This simple yet powerful change in communication can lead to increased loyalty and positive word-of-mouth for your business.
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